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    I admit that I secretly am disgusted by people like this but taking their photo, or anyone’s, and putting it online to mock is fucking evil and wrong in every way.

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      Hey. People who use Arch are still kind of people. You may not like it, I certainly don’t, but we have to learn to live in the world with them.

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      Is this even real? My dad is pretty dam fat and can hardly walk and when he has to pick something up, he just doesn’t. His arms look super tiny too, compared to the rest.

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          Idk people thinking fat people as disgusting is pretty disturbing atleast to me it is .

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            How is his thought disturbing? Humans were never meant to have this much fat, so feeling disturbed by this unnatural figure is quite reasonable.

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              I’m all for fitness and working out but I don’t make my lifestyle the standard to hold everyone up on .

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                The standard is not about being ripped, but about being healthy.

                There is absolutely no way to view this size as healthy.

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                No one is asking everyone to be as fit as the hemsworths but TLC’s 600lb life is a show that just shouldn’t exist because there shouldn’t be anyone near that weight

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              Wow you just live to think negatively about other people. That must be so miserable to live that way.

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                Wow are you are utterly determined to be right aren’t you. It doesn’t matter that your position is unhinged, makes no sense, and is based on attacking a perceived issue rather than an actual one. You’ve got to be right.

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            It’s none of your business what people think in their head. I know your mind isn’t squeaky clean.

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              Well keep your thoughts to yourself then, don’t put it out on the internet and not expect any one to express their thoughts .

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                Morbidly obese people like this make me want to throw up. They sicken me with how weak and pathetic they are.

                Now, please, express yourself some more.

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                  You sound way more miserable than any of the people you live to think negatively about.

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                  Well you make me wanna throw up . I bet your all healthy and shit cause the only people who care about others bodies this much tend to be worse themselves and is coping by expressing, hey at least I’m not as bad as this guy online which everyone is making fun of so I should also join in.

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            Anyone that says “I don’t judge”, is either a liar or are so unself aware that they don’t realise that they have even subconscious biases (but usually the first one).

            You’re not even virtue signalling here, you’re just showing a lack of maturity.

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        What? That morbid obesity is unhealthy?

        Fucking UNHINGED. Most controversial opinion of 2024.

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          I don’t think they live for your opinion of them. Maybe get used to understanding the importance of your opinion isn’t the same to other people. Nor should it be. Not saying you can’t have an opinion. Just that that’s as far as it’s gonna go and you are gonna have to get ok with that. Or just carry it with you til one day you die and you’re still angry about it on your deathbed. Your call on how you spend your energy. Sounds sad tho. Probably sadder than what you think a person who is obese is. At least they found some happy in their food. You just sound outright fucking miserable looking for things to be miserable about and pull people into thinking your misery is super important.

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            Wtf are you talking about? Nowhere does OP say he’s angry or even really bothered by it at all. He just thinks “oh ewww, that looks disgusting” and then goes about his day. What’s more disturbing is that so many people apparently seem to think that being this fat is actually something we should just accept or even celebrate.

            I feel like society should have a role in making sure people don’t ever get this fat. And not because it’s “eww” or ugly, but because it’s fucking unhealthy. Whenever I see a person like this, I feel pity. You don’t get this fat in a few months. This means years and years of bad habits, lack of access to healthy foods, maybe a terrible childhood with parents who didn’t give a shit, no assistance from the people around you who just stand by and watch it happen (or even enable it), very likely a highly fucked up self image and other issues. This is simply not healthy. It’s terrible.

            And this weird thing is happening where people can’t even say these things anymore without being attacked by people like you. I think you actually believe that OP’s opinion is the outlandish one. And that just makes me sad.

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              I feel like society should have a role in making sure people don’t ever get this fat. And not because it’s “eww” or ugly, but because it’s fucking unhealthy. Whenever I see a person like this, I feel pity. You don’t get this fat in a few months. This means years and years of bad habits, lack of access to healthy foods, maybe a terrible childhood with parents who didn’t give a shit, no assistance from the people around you who just stand by and watch it happen (or even enable it), very likely a highly fucked up self image and other issues. This is simply not healthy. It’s terrible.

              And that’s their issues to deal with. And just as much as you think they need help, focus on your issues. Like Go to therapy and deal with your control issues you clearly are struggling with hard here with all the ‘shoulds’ you lash out for everyone else

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              So you can’t attack people without being attacked…oh my yes, you’re soooooo ‘oppressed’. Poor you.

              And you are complaining that you have to think about the repercussions of what you say.

              You are the snowflake.

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                This is what you take away from my comment? Nobody was attacking anyone until you started berating OP for having thoughts. Do you honestly think I’m walking around calling fat people names all the time? Or that OP does that? Of course not. What we’re thinking inside our own heads does not constitute an attack.

                It’s hilarious that you think you’re on some moral high ground, implying that you never have any negative thoughts about anyone. Go stand on a lego, please.

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                  Yes you have an opinion. You aired it here. I have an opinion too. And I aired it here. It’s not just a game only you get to play. You’re not a victim so you can knock off the persecution bullshit. Not buying it.

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            I think you’re more angry about it than anyone else. You have decided, based on absolutely no evidence, that somebody is angry at somebody else for being overweight, and are rushing to their defense when it isn’t even warranted.

            You’re waving your arms around in an insane manner, knocking small toddlers over left and right, and calling everyone else deranged.

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              They didn’t have to come in here to say they were offended by large people. But they did anyways.

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                I’m disgusted by gargantuanly fat people. Large people, I am not. I came in here to scold OP and Anon for posting this in the first place. But you made it about yourself.

                Now get your last word in that I’m going to ignore.

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    Imagine seeing someone like this and thinking ‘I should take a picture of them and share it on the Internet’. Ya gross

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      What’s the favourite Linux who want to pretend that morbid obesity isn’t an epidemic?

      Bullying is obviously not Ok, but nor is the normalisation of such an unhealthy lifestyle.

      This guy wasn’t born fat, nor did he simply wake up this way on day, it took several years of continuous terrible choices.

      If you look like a freak, you will stared at, it’s harsh but it’s true.

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      For real. Him able to carry his body weight at all shows some dedication. It deserves respect. I do hope he managed to lose weight though. That’s downright deadly.

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    I mean, at some point you might as well just go “Fuck it, let’s see what my body can take before it gives up”

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    Hopefully this person finds the help they need, taking pics and spreading them around to make fun of them doesn’t help

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      It’s not nice, but pretending they don’t have an issue also doesn’t help them.

      Some people literally can’t imagine themselves through the eyes of another, they need it spelt out to them in plain English.

      I’m not saying that this makes the post OK, but there is a middle ground to find. It’s not like this guy has been fat shamed for going to the gym, trying to fix himself.

      The guy is a legit freak of nature and that’s always going to open you up to stares and photographs, that sucks, but he wasn’t born that way nor did he simply wake up like that one day and it doesn’t suck as much as normalising such an unhealthy lifestyle.

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    At least he’s passionate about Arch. I don’t know his life beyond that. I don’t need to know.

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    looks fake. honestly, what size shirt is that, xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxl? I just don’t see a swag shirt coming in that size.

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      Lemmy has taught me you must either be a stripe sock wearing twink or a skinny jeans wearing bearded tech bro. Where does the twink socks and tech bro meet in the middle?

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          So do you scout out all comments on how they might offend you? Pretty sad mentality if you ask me :/

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          I’m being sarcastic. Transphobia belongs to HexBear, Lemmy.World and Lemmygrad dipshits. You should go hang out there since your post history implies you like them.

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              It doesn’t.

              It implies you like people who are transphobic since you scour the internet for things to get angry at like some sort of masochist.