• blunderworld@lemmy.caEnglish
    81·
    1 year ago

    I hate that I relate to this, because honestly I feel like constantly skipping around to get to the good stuff can’t be good for us.

    • bennypr0fane@discuss.tchncs.de
      5·
      1 year ago

      I’m firmly convinced that it’s bad for us. As is watching a dozen vids in one session and switching back and forth between them. It’s possibly the most mentally damaging way of doing the whole thing. It’s like TikTok. Imagine doing that with movies.

    • TheBurlapBandit@beehaw.orgEnglish
      3·
      1 year ago

      I really don’t think spending extra time sitting through half assed foreplay is going to do the human race any favors.

      • blunderworld@lemmy.caEnglish
        3·
        1 year ago

        Might do an IRL sexual partner who enjoys foreplay a favour though. I dont know that reprogramming our brains to only react to hardcore scenes is doing ourselves a favour either.

        • TheBurlapBandit@beehaw.orgEnglish
          1·
          1 year ago

          I think the brain knows the difference between porn and an actual sexual encounter. Porn isn’t sex ed nor a tutorial.

  • Cyberwitch_7493@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
    6·
    1 year ago

    Really? Y’all skip all that? Idk, I like a good buildup sometimes. And when it comes to XConfessions and other artsy porn, I watch the whole thing after the intro.

  • 9488fcea02a9@sh.itjust.works
    5·
    1 year ago

    Has anyone actually watched a 1hr porn scene from start to finish?

    How? Why?

    Thry used to be like 6mins long in the 90s… The whole damn movie was an hour long… Now one porn scene is over an hour sometimes

    • space_comrade [he/him]@hexbear.netEnglish
      5·
      1 year ago

      I dunno people keep saying porn makes you have weird expectations from sex but I’ve never once met a person that wants sex exactly like it is in porn.

      I mean I’m sure it happens but I don’t think it’s this epidemic people are making it out to be.

      Also don’t watch mainstream porn, go for the homemade stuff, it tends to be much more natural.

      • Asafum@feddit.nl
        1·
        1 year ago

        I know what I like so I’m going with that and I try my best to learn what my partner likes. It’s definitely not ever the spiderman, upside down bullshit with my foot on her head or whatever absolutely bat-shit crazy stuff they do as if it were normal lol

        • bennypr0fane@discuss.tchncs.de
          2·
          1 year ago

          A number of porn positions are used solely for the purpose of exposing the genitalia to the camera, e.g. like the spiderman. Camera work is the only reason anyone would fuck like that, it’s horribly uncomfortable

    • Ben Hur Horse Race@lemm.ee
      3·
      1 year ago

      thats crazy in my book. jerking off is just getting self satisfaction, no connection, no sensuality, I mean you’re alone with a screen.

      actual sex is amazing, and I’m not apeing what my phone screen shows, I’m really drawing it out and enjoying every little nuance. most of the porn I’ve watched has next to nothing to do with what decent sex is actually like

      • h3doublehockeysticks [she/her]@hexbear.netEnglish
        4·
        1 year ago

        You’re still training yourself to only see the PIV/PIA (This is clearly not a Sapphic post, and I don’t know how trans man porn works) as the sexy bits. While all of the sex is the sexy bits.

  • Lunyan@kbin.social
    2·
    1 year ago

    The first ~2 minutes are my favourite usually, I like the buildup a lot more than the actual porn most of the time

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    1·
    1 year ago

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